Anna, I appreciate you sharing this thoughtful post. It reinforces the idea that none of us can know exactly when we'll shift from being the caregiver to being the cared-for. This is sobering but -- as you write about thinking through the options and planning ahead -- it's also empowering. I wish all the best for you.
Recently did all my paperwork as well. The specifics of advance directives took a lot of thought, and my BFF is NOT my proxy. A cousin's wife, who I'm close to, but who I chose because she's pragmatic and objective, and would be able to honor my choices. It took months for me to figure it all out.
Anna, thank you for sharing your test results 'being more predisposed to getting Alzheimers'. I appreciate how you're offering to use your time to explain your thoughts and recommendations on health care directives. While our healthcare system in the UK is different, the essence of your recommendations about finding someone who will support your decision and advocate for your wishes is essential.
Anna, I appreciate you sharing this thoughtful post. It reinforces the idea that none of us can know exactly when we'll shift from being the caregiver to being the cared-for. This is sobering but -- as you write about thinking through the options and planning ahead -- it's also empowering. I wish all the best for you.
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Recently did all my paperwork as well. The specifics of advance directives took a lot of thought, and my BFF is NOT my proxy. A cousin's wife, who I'm close to, but who I chose because she's pragmatic and objective, and would be able to honor my choices. It took months for me to figure it all out.
Anna, thank you for sharing your test results 'being more predisposed to getting Alzheimers'. I appreciate how you're offering to use your time to explain your thoughts and recommendations on health care directives. While our healthcare system in the UK is different, the essence of your recommendations about finding someone who will support your decision and advocate for your wishes is essential.